December 28, 2009 - House Update

Yesterday we showed Evan where he is going to grow up and took a picture of ourselves in front of the house so that we can show him what we were doing when he was born. It was a pretty neat experience to all be there together!
Josh as been working tirelessly as usual...night and day trying to get this house done. Presently we have windows and doors installed, roof is done, interior walls have been framed, stairs are in and we have ELECTRIC - as of tomorrow! Soon we will start running electric and plumbing and he is working on figuring out our heating system right now. We are holding out for some nice sunny days...makes it a lot easier to work late - positive thinking as we head into the brutal winter months.
Here are some pictures from yesterday...

December 28, 2009

In 5 weeks I have learned many things. I wrote them down so I don't forget them!

- Life is more complicated but also incredibly rewarding. I treasure our memories from the past more deeply then I ever thought I would. I am so glad we had those years together! I can't wait to make new memories as a family but I now view spending time with each other from a different perspective!

- Crying is NOTHING compared to screaming...the key is staying calm.

- I don't actually NEED as much sleep as I thought.

- Running out to get something QUICK...is more like taking a trip.

- When it's time to eat..you better be ready!

- Quiet(no matter when, where or how)is amazing! If you get a spare moment...make it worthwhile.

- Reminiscing good memories helps you pull through present struggles.

- There is no rhyme or reason...it's more like guess and check. You figure it out as you go...because it's up to you.

- Everyone will advise you...You know your child so use your own best judgement.

- There is no RIGHT way...Meet his needs, love him and take time to enjoy it.

- It is only temporary...and one day it will all be gone. You make the moments memorable.

- The ride is fast. The twists and turns are many. Sit down, strap in and hold on tight! Don't forget your camera.

December 5, 2009

It's a Boy!!!

Evan Jacob Fravel
Born 11/25/09 5:32am
6lb 9oz. 201/4 in.

It has been an amazing 10 days since he came into our lives! I still look at him and can't believe he is our son! I am so grateful for him and for the joy that he has brought to our lives! Even at 3am when I feel like I can't take anymore, I look at his face and I know...Life is Good! Who needs sleep anyway?
Thank you for all your prayers and support!

Josh & Mary